Boring Bar

What do I do now that I am boring or sober?
I have worked in bars for 16 or so years. I have been a Dancer, waitress, bartender, hostess, manager and not in that particular order. I also have MS which has been rearing its ugly head a lot lately. I had to quit working and even going to bars due to either my intolerance for drunks or my alcohol tolerance: it just isn't fun anymore. Since I quit, I have lost all but a couple of my friends. I do understand that bar buddies are not friends but several of these folks I really believed were for good. Well, I have been "T" (bar persona) for so long that with out her I feel boring and even a little unpleasant. I no longer crave gossip, parties, late nights, or large groups of people who know me. My sister says I am becoming a shut in. Is being alone, for once in my life, and enjoying my hobbies so bad? I can absolutely be in my house not answer the phone, the door, or talk to anyone for days. Am I becoming a shut in?
no. not necessarily. but you will become more acquainted with the you that is not invested in all of that extra-curricular activity.
you will be re-discovering yourself. and sometimes it will not be entirely pleasant if you have become dependant on the stimulations which have created the social you. though it do sound like you are not having that issue much. it seems as though you have accepted totally some course of MS.
how are you faring in this realization..?
i can recommend a good alternative health site (or two) if you want to take up a hobby of life renewal investigations/applications.
think about it.
but don't worry about becoming a shut-in unless there is reason for you to be afraid of going out. it seems to me that you are simply re-discovering who you are. alone.
not a bad idea and i would recommend it for anyone.
be well
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